I am a Nerd, but also a Jock?

Ok ever since high school(I am a sopre in College now), I have been like a jock and nerd mixed in one. In high school I was the star basketball, football, and lacrosse players. But instead of going to parties and getting drunk, I went to independent movies, comedy clubs, art shows, backpacking in europe, etc. I also played mive video games, and spent time large amounts of time with my family. its the same in college. I lift everyday and play sports, but I also play video games and love going to movies, comedy clubs, fondue cooking etc. But all the girls that like me are fake partying sorority girls and the girls I try to find think I am some stupid Fraternity brother. What should I do?