What is the best way to relax, and be calm when flying?

Trying bringing an iPod with some music that is calming to you. You can also talk to the flight attendant and tell them you are a bit nervous and they can sometimes help calm you down. Just know that airplane crashes are very rare. Thousands of flights take-off and land without incident everyday. You actually have a higher chance of being in a car accident than you do in an airplane accident.